What are some things that you wish you had included in your divorce agreement but didn't? I have looked at examples and so far the only thing that I have found that I had left out of my notes was that the husband cannot bring girlfriends, concubines or the new wife (or males filling those roles, if that is the case) to any events for the children, i.e., weddings, graduation, school plays, sporting events, recitals, demonstrations, plays, etc. There will be no birthday celebrations except those held at either his home or hers (e.g., no Chucky Cheese's) unless both parties consent and neither party will take the children out of town on their birthdays.|||The men answering this are soooo funny. They don't know you and your circumstances so ignore them. You are right. As a woman, I have seen countless destroyed weddings over this very issue. Besides, that wasn't the question, was it? You wanted to know what you should include and simply stated that you had found this in another agreement. Are these guys defensive or wh?. Anyway, you should include something about taking the kids out of the country. That is really an issue in this international world. Also, a parent can agree to stand on his head when he picks up the kids if that is what you agree to without the court and simply file. These guys above are funny!|||You have serious control issues. Meds and a trip to the shrink can help. If your daughter is old enough to get married, then why she needs a parenting plan? You are taking your grudge way too far, Your daughter can invite whomever she wants to her wedding. Jeez, lady, you give me the creeps|||Judging from your attitude, I can see why hubby ditched your ***.|||You don't legally have that right. Didn't you all go to mediation? The mediator would've explained the whole boyfriend/girlfriend of the spouse thing works. They ARE allowed to be there unless they are abusive or some kind of criminal. Sucks...but you cannot supersede the laws of the land.|||+1 to what blunt said above. Even if your husband is a liar and a cheat, let your adult child decide if he/she wants dad in his/her life. Good gravy. Perhaps you could go as far as girlfriends or concubines, but I don't think you can leave out his spouse should he choose to re-marry. Furthermore, as long as something is not life threatening, then you really can't spell out those sorts of things. I doubt a court would allow a divorce decree that indicated dad can't take his kids to Chuck E Cheese or Disneyworld for their birthday. You may not agree with his choices. I certainly don't agree with the choices made by my unfaithful ex-wife. But I wouldn't keep her from seeing her boyfriend or taking my daughter to Disneyworld, etc. The other things, such as no overnight stays of a woman he's not married to, sure. Restricting who he can take to the school play, no cool, no matter how much it hurts you. It's about the children, remember. So if it hurts you, you have to be the bigger person and get over it. It's better to have dad there at the play, even with his girlfriend or wife, than it is to have dad absent in most cases.|||Very good. I would hope the same holds for you. What happens when you meet someone? Are you really a person who does not need love, companionship or dare I say sex? That is of course if the restrictions work both ways. That would be the only reason for that crap. Oh yea, thats for him, not for you. I think I can see why he bailed out.

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